I don't like selling myself and I'm not good at it, so either you believe in what I'm saying or you don't. I only know how to be honest. I'm a 37 year old Black man who lives in Elk Grove with a wife, two children and a 20 year old step son. I have a great marriage but I have struggled in my reationship and I struggled all through high school with my self esteem. Few girls were attracted to me. I intentionally made changes and learned a lot. As I made personal changes women started liking me more and more. I kept searching and learning about women, men and relationships. I finally found what I believe to be the best information out there. Now that I know what I know, I want to help as many men out there. This information applies no matter the man or woman's nationality, age or religious background.
One of the biggest problems I see is that most men expect women to be logical and think like us. There's a saying that goes, "Treat others the way you want to be treated." This saying doesn't apply when dealing with women. Our logic is different from their emotions. Often times, their logic is based on their emotional state. Since their emotional states can change from moment to moment, so does their logic. Therefore we will always play a losing game when we try to reason with their emotions.
Another problem is that many of us guys are too nice. We don't have strict enough boundaries. LIke I said, we can't treat women like we would like to be treated. When guys are kind and generous to other guys, generally there's few problems. With women, this is not the case. When we are kind and generous they will be nice and kind but they will always say something or do something that is undermining or borderline disrespectful. Always. It might be a snarky comment, sarcasm, or something else. We, as men have to be able to be firm in what we will and won't tolerate. No woman will respect a man she can boss around or speak rudely to.
Anyways, I can go on and on in depth about this subject. I enjoy helping men because I can relate to their struggles and because I know my stuff. Many other guys that are offering this type of service miss the mark. Contact me if interested.