58 year old professional male, divorced, seeking divorced/single lady for friendship and building a long-term relationship. You must be honest and must know what you want in a man. Please, no mind games, scammers, married, heavy alcohol/drug use, smoking or FWB's. Personality counts for everything, so I consider that first, although BBW's are preferred. We all bring life baggage to the table at this time of life, but there's a difference between that and just having one issue after another. I work and am a graduate student as well, but I am very good at making time for that special lady. Have been on several dating sites for some time now, and it got old, so here I am. Happy New Year!