Just not finding or getting the attention you need or want... but still do not want to give the other benefits your currents situation affords you? I totally understand. I'm a nice looking, retired gentleman, I prefer a mature lady,and although I am a caucasian, race is not a concern. Nor is size. Most important quality is kindness and understanding. Seeking a lady, married or single, that is open to exploring a relationship. Not kinky, just enjoying each others company... and when it's time to leave, we are both checking our calerdars to schedule the next meeting. Sound interesting? I live in the greater Phoenix area, hopefully you do also.