‘Father’s Day’

What exactly is a ‘Father’? We celebrate Mother’s Day, because Mothers gave children life and nurture them for their needs to grow into adults! We celebrate Fathers because Fathers are the strong side of a family. They guide a family through the storms of life; they are the protectors of the family. They are also Work Horses doing those jobs that require strength, endurance in the weather, those jobs that are dangerous like working in the oil fields or constructing skyscrapers and bridges. They also enjoy doing those outdoor chores, those that men can do more easily than women.

It is a DNA imposed on Men by God when He created both Men and Woman. Women are the warmer side of Mankind, you know “The Softer Side” the outward more caring, more emotional and it shows as Woman’s outward giving of love is more visible. Man on the other hand displays less outward giving of love but it is there, it’s just hidden within themselves! In this world of danger, evil doers, Men can’t display themselves as weak!

While Men on the other hand can’t be careless when involved in raising a family, they are prone to be more adventurous in letting children experience the world to grow and to be less afraid of the world!

Women and Children tend to be more carless because they know not the dangers that lurk, just waiting to happen!

Men, must be the strong willed to guide a family because it is in their DNA, inscribed within them by God when He created us. Just as Joseph guided the Virgin Mary, the mother of God, Jesus Christ, through the dangers of that Time, so that the infant baby Christ Child could be born, so do Men act in the same way guiding their family.

Joseph had to protect Mary, the mother of God from the clutches of the evil, corrupt leaders of both Rome and the Jewish Leaders of that time, who could not and would not believe in a Savior being born into a Carpenter’s Home.

They also did not want to lose their power, the leadership they had in the Temple or with the leaders of Rome to a New Leader as set forth of His Coming in the Old Testament!

 For this Savior was coming to Save the World of Men & Women from the ‘Death of Sin’! To bring Salvation through repentance and forgiveness by ‘the Son of God, being the Lamb of God, Jesus Christ’, to be sacrificed, by torture, ridicule, and death on the Cross at Calvary so that the sins of man could be forgiven!

Jesus Christ, who in the thirty-three years of His Life changed the world forever! He as the One, teaching His Gospel of the New Testament, choosing Men to become Men of God, His Disciples. Teaching them the Word of God, to become Great Religious Leaders and building this Church called Christianity from One to the Billions of Believers that it is today!

Jesus was as a young Father, teaching not only the young but also the old as to how they should live, conduct themselves and function as Children of God. This is what a ‘Father’ is, that person playing with their children, teaching them how to play sporting games such as football, baseball, soccer, tennis and basketball. Teaching them as to how they should act at school and among older adults. Also teaching them about God, going to church so that they can learn from the teachings of the church and those around them that influence young lives in a good Christian Way!

All part of growing up, becoming adults, becoming the future of civilization and new life. This is what a ‘Father’ is, and should you not have acted in this manner, supporting your children financially, with guidance, taking time out of your life to spend with them, doing those things that children see other fathers doing; doing these things even though the Spousal, Partner Relations have ended and are not cohesive! If you haven’t done these important things because of anger, or the hatred that so many times builds in the ending of a ‘Relationship” Jesus Christ has given us all the ability to change our ways and learn to love and forgive each other for insults, anger, hatred, lies that we spew at each other so many times in our lives!

You as a Man, as a father, must overcome and do it without fault or counter accusation so that your child will have an opportunity, not shackled from opportunity simply because their mother and father’s relationship ended!

He is also the one who must take control of scolding, punishment when rules are broken, when school homework or household chores are not done. Having to issue punishment or threats of no TV, games or fun things, sometimes makes him the ‘Bad Guy’, but most dads suck it up and continue as if nothing happened letting them know tomorrow will be a New Day!

Yes, give thanks to God for His Creation, His DNA Inscription on the Soul of Men who fought, died, lost body parts, the life they once knew in ‘Wars & Conflicts, throughout history and still those surviving become Loving Fathers and Teachers of children. Men, who of course are enabled by Our Creator to also follow the wishes of their spouses or partners like ‘Diplomats’ representing countries of the world.

When marriages, partnerships go wrong, end and they include children left in dust of the ending of those relationships then the Adults should come to a diplomatic and ‘Godly’ Agreement for the betterment of the children when the former spouse or partners are not living in the same household or locale!

It is hard to have just one leader in a family. It seems that it is hard for people to agree on the simplest matters, so maybe we should let Jesus Christ rule our family, our hearts and enjoy the love of being a family. Ending the power struggles within it, respecting one another and being at peace with each other, in the world that God created and gave to us to enjoy!

Happy Father’s Day to All Fathers in This World. Bring Jesus Christ into Your life, because with His love & through His love you can become a better Father and in the eyes of your Children you can become the ‘Best Father in this World’! God Bless All Fathers and let us all pray to help make them even better! Visit: prayerscircle.com